“Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives” – Commercial Sex Workers

P.M.EXPRESS correspondent who had observed for
weeks decided to find out why married men
patronize sex workers despite that they had in
most cases beautiful wives in their various homes.
It turned out to be shocking revelations from both
patrons and workers.

Some of the brothels and hotels our reporter visited were located at Agege, Idimu, Shasha, Mushin, Ikotun, Igando, Yaba, Ejigbo and other areas in the state.

One of the commercial sex workers, simply known as Jenifer and who operates in Shasha area of Lagos said that most of her clients were married men.

According to her, though she used to collect good
money from them, she still pitied them as she
learnt their wives were not really taking care of
their emotional needs at home.
Jennifer narrated that one of her clients opened up
and complained that he got married some years
ago and they had three children. But after the birth
of their third child, the wife had practically abandoned him and faced the children without knowing that he needed care as well as the children.

She said that as a graduate, she knew what those men needed and they were not getting them in their different homes and then decided to work on them.

She revealed that these men mostly stuck to her and had been paying reasonable money unlike the single men who came with many fake stories. The lady further narrated that she had three regular married clients and whenever they came, she made sure that she treated them well.

She said that she usually spent good time with them, chatted them up generally, and then attended to their sexual needs which they lacked in their homes and at the end they paid her reasonable money.

Another lady, Grace, revealed that married men were preferable because they considered and appreciated the workers more than the single men who may not want to pay at all or pay more.

She however noted that dealing with married clients
was a huge task, as such workers must have
patience in order to treat such clients well and at
the end the patience will be worth the pay as they
will pay good money for the service and become regularly clients eventually.

Grace observed that married men preferred them because of the attention and time they usually gave to them which they were not getting from their wives in their various homes and once they got them from the workers, they get stuck to them. She said that some even got carried away and proposed to marry her but she usually declined because marriage was not part of why they became workers but money to cater for other things.

Another worker, Miss Chizoba, equally agreed with
her colleagues’ assertion on married men but
added not all were good clients as some may
come and start telling woes of their wives at home;
even making terrible demands and may not have
the money to match what they want from them.